Monday, July 21, 2014

Sophisticat-Nap

I'm a big fan of loungewear. Lately I have been thinking about PJs and all the cute, soft things I bought that I hardly ever wear. I ask myself, "Why not?" The answer is usually that I am so tired in the evening that I just sleep in whatever. But I've made a commitment to stop that.

As ladies, we are so elegant and worth so much dignity. And it's not just true when someone is watching! You get to be elegant ALL the time. So why not dress things up when you're at home watching TV, cleaning the house, hanging out with the family, or just having some you-time? With delicious fabrics like modal, silk, and cotton gauze, comfy doesn't have to mean thread-bare, either!

Here are a few beautiful pieces from Anthropologie I found that are worthy of the sophisticated class-act that you are:


I like this nightie with its colorful, lacy simplicity. Skirts and dresses are so easy to sleep in, and they keep you cool in a toasty apt/house during the summer. This one is so elegant and feminine, but I appreciate that it doesn't reduce the feminine form to a porn instrument, as many nighties do. Here's to loveliness :)


Really liking these pants! I love the detailing that makes them not-just-a-pair-of-sweats. Super-soft coziness, yet worthy of your regal elegance. :)


These PJs are so fun! Colorful and energetic, but still cool and comfortable for a warm evening. Classy chillin'.

So if you rarely treat yourself at the end of the day, find some classy pajamas you like and give them a go. Rest easy!

Thursday, July 17, 2014

Food, Craving, and That Time of Month

So if you are like me (I am assuming you are female), you crave certain foods during PMS. And they are not necessarily bad things. How can chocolate be bad? But of course, it seems a bit cruel that your body wants something that isn't really good for it. Many women crave sweets, food high in fat, etc. You want to be good to your body and try to combat said cravings with an apple or a salad. But we all know that a piece of produce is no sane substitute for a brownie. To add insult to injury, bingeing on these kinds of junky foods during this time will only leave your body more vulnerable to cramps, fatigue, and moodiness that comes from hormonal imbalance. So what do you do?

Well, you start from the beginning and remember who you are, and by Whom you were created. See, when God made you with all your cravings and so on, He made just the right things to satiate you completely. In His way of satiating, He didn't leave anything out. He didn't give you desires whose fulfillment would hurt you. "But how can that be?" you say. "I mean, I am pretty certain it is cake that  I want." Kinda. Your body craves what it does because you have a need. You crave sweets because your body needs energy, not because it needs sweets. There's real sugar that was made for our bodies (sugars from fruits and veggies), and there's fake sugar that we've manufactured and packed with chemicals that will not be processed correctly by our bodies. So if you give your body real foods, you will actually be satisfied. Your body will have the energy to counteract PMS fatigue, the magnesium from chocolate that will balance your hormones, and all sorts of perks. And you'll find that your other symptoms like cramps, headaches, etc. will eventually go away!

So here are some fun ideas I have gathered just from my own experience. Every woman's body is different, so you can take whatever applies to you, or tweak whatever you like. But hopefully something here will help you!

Chocolate Cravings:

If you want chocolate but not a ton of sugar and fat (which milk chocolate has), make some banana hot chocolate! Take one very ripe banana and put it in the blender. Set aside. In a small saucepan, put enough milk for 1 cup of hot chocolate along with half of a dark chocolate bar* (use 70% cacao or higher). Heat the chocolate and milk until the chocolate melts. Then add the whole thing to the blender and blend until smooth. It is DELICIOUS! The banana serves as a natural sweetener, so you won't need to add sugar.
*a good substitute for the chocolate bar is plain cocoa without any additives or sugars.

Cake/Sweets Cravings:

Banana bread! Find any good banana bread recipe online, and let a nice homemade quickbread (if you don't like banana bread, try blueberry bread instead) satisfy your carb longing. Just make sure to use wheat or spelt flour and raw sugar even if the recipe doesn't call for it. And if you want, you can even put some dark chocolate chips in it. To make it really body-friendly, add some magnesium by eating it with natural peanut butter. SO good :)

Oatmeal cookies! This is a fun recipe that includes pineapples and coconut. I use fresh pineapple that I put in the blender or food processor. And again, just don't use any refined ingredients (I substitute raw sugar for white sugar).  

Ice Cream Cravings:

Yogurt smoothies are delicious, and they make a nice base if you wanna put them in popsicle molds and freeze them. Simple ingredients like frozen fruit, some not-from-concentrate juice without added sugar, and regular whole milk yogurt make a nice treat that, in my opinion, tastes better than ice cream. Fruit that work the best for a smooth and ice-creamy texture are bananas, mangoes, peaches, pears, and strawberries with avocado (sounds weird, but it is incredibly creamy and tastes amazing). Coconut milk and soy milk make good dairy substitutes.Experiment with what you enjoy, though.

Another fun thing I like to do is chill some whipping cream and whip it until it gets thick. Then I add some pureed frozen fruit. Sure, it's still high in fat, but it's real fat that your body knows how to digest. It also only has natural sugars. And since it isn't fake, you'll be satisfied without having to binge on it.

--Pictured: Fresh, sliced peaches in fresh whipped cream with added cocoa (unsweetened) and raw sugar.

Burger and French Fry Cravings:

Your body needs iron, but a burger with commercial fries and cheese with additives will leave you sensitive to PMS symptoms. Try this instead: get some ground turkey and season it with chopped onions, salt, pepper, and crushed fresh garlic. Form it into a patty and put it on the grill or in the oven. Once cooked, put it on a whole wheat burger bun with tomato, lettuce, and either cheddar or Swiss (not American cheese, as it has lots of unnatural additives). Add some organic ketchup and mustard if you want. As a side, make some sweet potato fries! Here's  a good recipe.

Pizza Craving:

I love pizza. You can make your own pizza with a nice wheat crust, fresh mozzarella, and fresh veggies. You can even put some uncured pepperoni, bacon, or ham if you want. Another delicious option, especially when craving pepperoni, is a salad! Believe it or not, I think you'll like this. Fill a bowl with bite-sized pieces of washed purple-leaf romaine. Add goat cheese, chopped tomato, chopped avocado, and chopped pieces of uncured natural pepperoni. MMM! Eat with a toasted wheat or rye roll or some good wheat crackers.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Pareo Changes Things

Several years ago, I bought this beautiful pareo in South Africa, but I haven't done much with it. I usually just tie it around my waist as a beach cover up, but I knew there had to be more possibilities :) It's been so hot lately, and being one who doesn't like to sweat (unless I am dancing), I thought to appropriate it better since it's so nice and breezy.



Indeed, I now have myself a new dress! Here it is above, modeled by the lovely DeeDee the Dress Form.

To accomplish this, wrap the pareo around yourself (under your arms, not over the shoulders) from behind. Take the top edges of the fabric and wrap them around your neck as you would a halter. Tie the remaining fabric behind your neck, knotting it securely (don't skip this step, seriously!). To further secure the pareo, pin it at the front where cloth overlaps before going behind your neck. Place the safety pin so that the pin sits inside the dress and doesn't show. Or if you like, use a pretty brooch and pin it on the outside.

I like to wrap the whole thing with a belt, but this all depends on your style and body shape. I am pretty curvy, so the dress bunches in the middle. But if it hangs on you in a flattering manner, you probably don't need a belt.





At last, accessorize with a fun bag. Only, put it on your shoulder and not your neck. Sorry, Deeds doesn't have arms, so I had to improvise. :)