See, I am dsicovering that fashion is so much more than what we're lead to believe! A particular trend is often determined for us by someone who doesn't know the deep things that make you, you! Then the trends are handed down through a series of marketing efforts that are aimed at making a business profitable, not about making you look your best. So we're told that something is High Fashion, and that we should like it. But what, then? How will we feel in it, and how will it make any difference in our lives?
So if being fashionable isn't about being up on the trends, what is it? Oh, so many brilliant things! The sweet thing is that you get to explore and determine it for yourself. Here are a couple of things to consider as you find your personal style:
1. Color: What colors are you naturally drawn to? If you've been so immersed in fashionability that you aren't sure, go back to what you liked when you were younger. Did you have favorite colors as a child? What colors make you feel lively, peaceful, excited? What colors bring out your natural hair and eye color?
2. Texture: Go for natural fabrics. Blends that include polyester and other synthetics lack the softness and hypoallergenic nature of modal, pure cotton, silk, wool, cashmere, leather, etc. Naturals can be a bit more pricey, but that's what sales and consignment shops are for. :) Seriously, though, looking nice should never come at the price of comfort and health.
Also consider how you want to feel in your clothes. I personally love soft, inviting textures. In the winter, I like a lined coat and could never do leather. Some people, on the other hand, appreciate the heaviness and warmth of a nice suede or leather coat. Determine what you enjoy.
3. Garment Construction and Shape: Based on your body shape, find what shapes look good on you. And remember, a piece doesn't have to be body-hugging to be figure flattering. A well-constructed piece that suits you will be able to effortlessly bring out your best. For instance, I like wide leg jeans. I have shapely hips and proportionately long legs, so they work for me. They fit well in the hips, which establishes shape, while the length of my legs makes the width flowy and fun rather than overbearing. For shorter legs, I would recommend a straighter leg so your lovely limbs don't get bogged down by too much fabric.
4. Personality: Let your clothes reflect your personality! Do you think in a linear way, enjoy caring for vulnerable people and animals, or like speaking encouragement to others? Your clothes can reflect it in the colors and shapes you pick! For example, as a dancer, I believe there is a glory that moves (figuratively and literally) through my life. It's no wonder I'm drawn to clothes that flow and fabrics that are not encumbered or restricting! My friends who are logistics minded tend to like clothes with more linear shapes, like Polo shirts or nautical stripes. Still other friends who notice the beauty in nature tend to like earth tones and garments whose texture resembles natural phenomena.
The highest of high fashion is the aesthetic that reflects you. I hope you enjoyed this little guide! Exploring is an ongoing process, so be blessed in your style-searching! <3
